A girl needs her gays.

I have decided that the best accessory a girl can have is a gay. This particular girl has two of her own, a gay boyfriend, and a gay husband.

A smart woman once said, "A gay boyfriend is the loop hole in monogamy." Yes, Carry Bradshaw was that smart woman, who taught me at a young age the importance of shoes, fashion, starbucks, and the gays.

The reason why the token gay bf is so important is because they are honest. My boyfriend I met while working. I ordered a crispy chicken sandwich (with chipotle mayo) and he criticized me for eating something so fatty. I knew from that moment we were going to be great friends. It took some time for our relationship to blossom, but it finally did. We started to bond over food, laughing at people, our love for fashion, all things glitter, and our favorite musical 'Legally Blonde.'

Luckily for me my gay boyfriend and I think A LOT alike. We will laugh at you for terrible fashion, stand in ridiculously long lines to meet famous people or for food, there is nothing we wont do for a good time.

My gusband (gay husband) and I met in high school, not as fast of relationship...but a long lasting one. I was there when he came out and have been by his side for the last 8 years.

One important time in my life was to introduce my gay boyfriend and my gusband...it's important for a girls gays to get along.

In the SATC episode "All That Glitters" Carrie's gay husband gets jealous over the gay boyfriend. That was the LAST thing that I wanted happening in my life. My gay boyfriend lives closer and I get to see him more. Yet my gusband knows that I love him more than anything & that he will always be the husband.

I love both of mine because they are always there for me. They are honest, can have fun, dance like nobody's looking, yet they do whatever you ask...just like a real boyfriend. We have the same taste in music, love lady gaga, and are into fashion. I could never get my boyfriend to listen to my music or give a lick about what I was wearing or what shoes match my outfit better.

It's the perfect win-win and mesh of the two worlds. It makes me happy and is a true must for any girl.